But What About…?

Sue Patterson

Is this LEGAL??

Yes! It is! In all 50 states as well as my countries around the world.

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Deschooling

What is it and is it something I need to do? We have a collection of articles that will help you undo the schoolish notions in your head.

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Learning to Read

Unschoolers learn how to read because parents pay attention to when their child's brain is really ready. No reason exists to rush them along - and many documented reasons not to! Parents don't need curriculum packages to help their child with reading.

Read More About How Unschoolers Learn to Read

Learning Math

What if you didn't do that well in math and you're worried that you're going to get in over your head? Get the reassurance you're looking for.

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Record Keeping

If unschoolers don't use tests, grades or divide the learning into subjects, what do you do about record keeping?

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Technology???

"What if I'm afraid my kid will stay on the computer all day every day?" We have a lot for you to read and a fabulous FB group that will help with parenting questions like this.

Check out the articles, podcasts, videos, and blogposts that will help you embrace technology as the fabulous tool it is!



Unschooling Teenagers

Do you worry that unschooling your teenager might not be a good thing? Maybe you're thinking that unschooling might not prepare them for college or a good career? Read more about how unschooling works - even for teens!

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When Parents Work

Sometimes parents have to work. Unschooling can still be a choice - it will take some juggling though. We've collected suggestions from families who have found ways to unschool their children, even though they have to work.

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Limited Budgets

Sometimes people worry that they won't have enough money to unschool their children.

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Typical Days

New people always want to see a glimpse into what life could look like as an unschooling family. Everyone is so unique though, it's really unlikely one family looks that much like another.  But think of a string of Saturdays... or a great summer break. Whatever that looks like in your family is probably going to be a bigger clue as to what this will be for you.

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African American Unschoolers

Sometimes it's hard to find other people of color. We've collected a few links and resources that might help.

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Early Childhood

If you're feeling pressure to put your little one into preschool, please read the articles at the website here. We have articles about what's wrong with early academics, what are the benefits of play, activities you could do with your young child, and more.

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Unschooling Resources

If you'd like to read some good books about unschooling, here are our favorites. We've also included links to magazines, podcasts, and free books that we know about.

See the Suggestions

Radical Unschooling

You may hear this term now and wonder what it means. The term "radical" is being used to reference taking something to its roots. And that's what those who are radical unschoolers have done. They're applying the unschooling principles to their parenting too - not just to academics.

Read more about it




Unschooling Conferences

Conferences that embrace unschooling are listed at this page.This also includes some large scale camping trips as well as a lot of options for teenagers.

Find a conference nearby! Or plan a road trip!


Finding Local Unschoolers

Our ever-growing collection of groups and links, helping unschoolers get connected with the locals.

Find a group in your area!

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By Sue Patterson June 14, 2026
What does it really look like when kids play video games all day in an unschooling home? A real look at daily life, patterns, and what parents often miss.
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By Sue Patterson June 12, 2026
Are homeschooling or unschooling questions stealing your summer? Get practical guidance, reassurance, and clarity before the new school year begins this fall.
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By Sue Patterson June 11, 2026
Worried that your child's online friends aren't "real" friends? Explore how gaming friendships develop, what healthy online relationships look like, and how to think about online safety.
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By Sue Patterson June 10, 2026
Travel reflections and unschooling
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By Sue Patterson June 8, 2026
Can kids learn from video games? Explore how gaming can translate into history, science, math, leadership, and more, plus how to document it on a homeschool transcript.
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By Sue Patterson June 5, 2026
Worried about your child’s future with so much gaming? A grounded look at video games, development, and what actually matters over time.
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By Sue Patterson June 2, 2026
If your kid won’t get off screens, you’re not alone. Here’s why screen time turns into a battle and what actually helps without making it worse.
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By Sue Patterson May 30, 2026
Worried your child is addicted to video games or screens? Here’s what those intense moments often mean and how to understand what’s really happening.
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By Sue Patterson May 27, 2026
Worried about screen time or gaming in unschooling? Here’s what’s actually happening, why it feels so intense, and how to make sense of it in real life.
By Sue Patterson May 26, 2026
What my trip to France reminds me about structure....
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