Unschooling A Teen Feels Different — because it is.

The stakes feel higher now.


Expectations start to shift


School didn’t work.
Homeschooling isn’t working the way you hoped.
You thought the teen years would feel more “academic"
     ...and they don’t.
Or you’ve built a life around curiosity and freedom—and now you’re wondering if that’s enough.




These are the questions that usually follow:

How will they get into college?
How will I make a transcript?
What about their lack of motivation?

Should I worry about all this screentime?
“What if we’re too late?”


These questions start to show up—and they don’t always have easy answers.

If you’re feeling that pressure, you’re not doing anything wrong.

That's where we'll start.


You can do this WITH Support or On Your Own


Some parents want support as they figure it out…
That’s what the membership is for.



Support for Parents Unschooling Teens

Inside the membership, these are the kinds of things we work through together:

College.
Transcripts.
Motivation.
Screen time.
“What if we’re too late?”


And instead of guessing your way through it, you’ll have:

  • Help translating real-life learning into transcripts
  • Support navigating college—or choosing something different
  • Practical ways to handle motivation without pressure
  • Ongoing conversations with parents who understand this stage
  • Resources and tools you can come back to when new questions come up


Join Us Today!

You don't have to figure this out alone!

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Sue Patterson's advice comes not only from guiding her own three (now grown) teens,

but also from years spent listening to other parents and the teens themselves! 
She's sharing resources, tips, and guidance so you can create your own success stories


More of a DIY Person?

 
Sue’s covers many areas related to unschooling teens in her blogs and podcasts.
If you’d rather work your way through this on your own, I’ve put together a place to start.

Podcasts about Unschooling Teens

Connecting with your Gamer Teen
By Sue Patterson July 8, 2025
No one prepared you for parenting a teen - certainly not in this day and age. Don't let fears about gaming interfere in your connection with them!
Teen Years – Is it too late to Unschool?
By Sue Patterson November 8, 2022
So many kids have been struggling with school! Bullying, the pressure to perform, the over-emphasis on testing, the sleep deprivation – the list keeps growing. But parents worry if it's too late to switch gears and choose to unschool. Sue shares why it's not too late to unschool - AT ALL!
By Sue Patterson October 4, 2022
Are you new to unschooling and your kids are worried unschooling may not be "enough?" Sue Patterson shares how you could talk about it with them, when it's all new.
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Worried about the Teen Years?

Listen to the teens who lived it!

Homeschooled Teens: 75 Young People Speak About Their Lives Without School

By Sue Patterson

 

What better way to reassure yourself that unschooling your teen is an excellent decision than to read the success stories as told by 75 young people themselves?


Sue's interviews showcase how they made friends, got along with family, and explored unique learning environments. They're eager to share the benefits and advantages they experienced through homeschooling. Their lives were (and are!) full, rich, and happy.

 

Available in digital formats or in paperback.


I need this book!

"I LOVE this book! It's just the reassurance I needed!"

Book cover:

A traditional school path often involves college.
But, can unschooled teens get into college?
How do they do once they are there?

Sue and other experts address these concerns that empower you to answer them for yourself and with your kids.
Read more here...

Unschooling Teens and Transcripts
By Sue Patterson June 20, 2021
Are you worried about unschooling teens and transcripts? Here are the resources you need to feel confident about unschooling AND create an acceptable transcript.
By Sue Patterson May 31, 2021
Can unschoolers get into college? Yes! They're doing it all the time. Sue Patterson will share how this happens...
By Sue Patterson March 22, 2021
Why do we feel like the stakes get higher when it comes to the teen years? In some ways, maybe it does. In other ways, not so much. Let's talk about unschooling a teen.
Unschooling, Math, Older Kids
By Sue Patterson December 18, 2020
Unschooling Q & A with Sue Patterson - "How DO older unschooled kids learn the math they need to know?"
By Guest Blogger June 21, 2019
In thinking about writing this article and pondering an appropriate title, I kept coming back to a song that was written for an Off Broadway show a few years back.  The song is called "Die Vampire Die" and it's about all the people (the vampires) who try to suck the life out of your creative Read More
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Need Help Creating a Transcript?

Sometimes it's hard to visualize how you're going to translate your teens every day activities into an acceptable transcript. Even if your kids are younger, this idea can worry you!


That's why I created 2 options to help parents like you!


  • Take the Mini-Course to DIY your way through
  • Let me walk you through it all with lots of hand-holding!


Your Choice!

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